Let’s face it: Sometimes listening is HARD. You’re talking to someone, and your mind starts wandering, maybe thinking about what’s for dinner or how you’re going to avoid awkward silence at the next family gathering. But if we’re serious about following Christ, we’ve got to take listening to a whole new level. It's not just about hearing the words—it’s about really listening, understanding, and responding in a way that reflects Christ’s love and grace.
First, let’s talk about how to listen. It’s easy to jump in with advice or try to “fix” someone’s problem right away, but remember, Jesus was really good at listening before speaking. He wasn’t quick to interrupt or rush in with solutions. He took the time to understand people’s hearts. So, next time someone’s sharing something with you, pause, and just be present. Let them talk without worrying about what you’re going to say next. Proverbs 18:13 reminds us, “To answer before listening—that is folly and shame.” Oops, guilty! But hey, we all learn, right?
Once you’ve listened, then it’s time to communicate. And guess what? Jesus wasn’t all about preaching at people either. He communicated with love, humility, and compassion. Ephesians 4:29 says, “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs.” So, when you respond, make it kind and constructive. You don’t need to have all the answers, but you can always offer encouragement, prayer, or just a listening ear.
Remember, good communication isn’t just about talking—it’s about truly hearing and responding with love. You don’t need to be a perfect listener, just one who’s genuinely willing to love and learn from others. And hey, that’s the kind of communication that shows Christ’s heart to the world!
